Avoiding Buyers Remorse

There comes a point in every home search where you have to make a decision, once you find a home you like. You can go look at the home a second time. You may even have a friend or relative go and look at it with you. Some folks even say that they want to sleep on it, before they make a decision. But eventually you have to decide. Not just one decision but two decisions. The first decision is whether to write an offer on the home. The second is how much to offer if you decide to write an offer on the home.

What to do

Deciding whether to write an offer can be much easier than how much to offer. After all, if your offer is too low, you might lose the house. If it is too high, you might spend years wondering if you overpaid. How do you decide on the right amount to offer? Part of what makes deciding on an offer price so difficult is that most buyers are trying to avoid buyer’s remorse.

Avoid regret

What is buyers remorse? It is the feeling of doubt, anxiety or regret after making an offer or going under contract on a home. It often boils down to wondering whether you paid too much. You may be asking yourself questions like, “did I over pay.” “Should I have offered less?” “Did I just make a huge mistake.” Guess what. The questions that you are asking yourself are very common questions that many buyers ask. Remember, You are making one of the biggest financial decisions of your life. So when trying to decide what to offer on a home, you are also trying to avoid regret.

Trust your agent

How do you feel confident in your decision? The best way to reduce uncertainty is to rely on the advice and experience of your buyers agent. Trust them. They have the experience of assisting many clients in your exact situation. Your agent is part market expert, part negotiator and sometimes part therapist. Have your agent show you what similar homes have sold for. Understand the current market conditions. Before you have your agent write an offer, decide on the highest price you can pay, while still feeling comfortable with your decision. I often tell buyers, offer what you are comfortable with. The right number is the number if someone else offers more, you are okay with them buying the house. Make sure you stay true to your budget.

There is no way to completely eliminate uncertainty when buying a home. Making informed decisions you can feel good about regardless of how things turn out, is one of the best ways to avoid regret.

What buyers notice about your home

Savvy buyers and real estate agents have a knack for sizing up a home within moments of arriving at your home. If you are ready to sell your home and want your home to look its best, what is important to do before putting your home on the market?

According to the National Association of Realtors, in 2025, the number one thing to do to prepare your home for sale is home staging. Eighty three percent of home buyer’s agents say a staging home is easier for buyers to picture themselves in. Seller’s agents report that staging reduces the time on the market. A quick sale is certainly appealing for most sellers.

Clean and smelling fresh

Beyond home staging, here are things that buyers and agents spot the minute they open the door of your home. One of the first things they notice is how the home smells. This is before they notice the layout or paint colors. Buyers can forget a lot of things, but they do not forget the way a home smells. The fix is not air freshener. They often signal that something is being covered up. A clean neutral scent is best.

Let in the light

Another thing that buyers and their agents notice is how much natural light fills the home. Bright, airy rooms feel larger and more inviting. Dark interiors have a tendency to make buyers uneasy and question the homes energy efficiency. Open the curtains, take down heavy drapes and let the light shine in. Another thing to do, that is frequently overlooked, is to replace light bulbs and add brighter bulbs before the home goes on the market.

Clear the clutter

Clutter and personal items filing a home are both a quick turn off for buyers. These things make it difficult for the buyer to imagine themselves living their own life in the space. This is also the reason why it is important to remove personal photos. This is the single highest-return task a seller can do. It costs nothing but some time and transforms how a home shows.

Clean floors

While looking buyer are quick to look at the condition of the floors in a home. Scratched hardwoods, stained carpets and cracked tiles jump out immediately. Flooring is the largest visible surface in a room. The condition of the flooring can set the stage for the home to show well and look well maintained, if the flooring is in good condition. Flooring that needs attention can shift the buyer’s perception of the property. Also, buyers know that replacing flooring can be expensive and time consuming. Making sure the flooring in the homes is in good condition is an important investment that pays off.

Most important rooms

Your kitchen is one of the most important rooms in the home. Buyers often head straight to the kitchen to see what it looks like. Grease build up on the range hood, cluttered counters and outdated appliances with a bit of grime, will show the buyer how well the rest of the home has been maintained. Something as simple as clean countertops create a sense of spaciousness that photographs well and feels welcoming in person. The National Association of Realtors (NAR) 2025 staging report found that the living room, primary bedroom and kitchen are the three most important rooms buyers are the most concerned about. These rooms are the most important rooms to make sure they look good and are appealing to buyers.

Preparing your home for sale does not cost a lot of money. Spending time or money to have the home professionally cleaned and de-cluttered can make all of the difference. A clean home can also provide that fresh, clean smell that buyers like. Remember when preparing a home for sale to focus the most attention on the important rooms that buyers care most about. These rooms are the living room, primary bedroom and the kitchen. Talk to your agent about staging your home to ensure that it appeals to the most buyers. Then relax and start planning to move.

Is Homeownership Really Out of Reach?

If you have been wishing that you could buy your first home, there is a good chance you have been seeing the headlines. Reading those headlines would discourage anyone. But as with most things headlines can be different than reality. To be fair, it is not easy for first time home buyers to buy a home. Prices have gone up. Interest rates are higher. And rent doesn’t make it easy to save money for a down payment. So, even if you are doing pretty well financially, it is easy to assume you are not in a position to buy. So, is homeownership really out of reach?

When you are looking at social media it is easy to feel like you are behind where you should be and not doing as well as others. You may also be listening to your co-workers that purchased a home a few years ago. All of these little things can eat away at your confidence and suggest that buying a home is not realistic now. But, you are still curious. What questions should you be asking to find out if home ownership is possible?

How do I find out?

The first question to ask is: Am I in a position to buy a home? It is a pretty simple, straight forward question. But you may not know how to get that question answered. So, the next question you need to ask is: Who would I need to ask to get a clear answer? The best person to ask this question to is a local lender. Find someone that works with first time home buyers. You want someone that will be patient and answer your questions. The ones you have and the questions you do not know to ask. When you call this person, ask them if you can set up an appointment to meet with them. If that is too scary, make a phone call and ask if they can send you an online loan application. It doesn’t cost anything to find out.

Who do I ask?

The next question, if you are still nervous to make the phone call is to ask yourself, what is the worst thing that can happen if I try to find out? By making the phone call you are not committing to anything. You are working to get answers to your questions. The worst that could happen is you could confirm that you are not quite ready. If you are not quite ready, you can make a plan. The plan may be to save more money for your down payment. You may need to improve your credit. You can find out what is needed to make that happen.

What if the answer to the question is that you are ready to buy a home? This does not mean that you need to rush out and buy something tomorrow. It means that you now know where you stand and that you have options. You can not decide what timing works for you.

If you have been feeling like buying your first home is out of reach you are not alone. Between rising prices, higher interest rates and what the headlines are saying, you may not feel like you can. If you can have a quick conversation with a mortgage lender, you can have a clear picture of where you stand. You may find out you are closer than you think.

Renovate or relocate

If you have thought about moving lately, you have probably also considered not moving. Many sellers have a wonderful, low interest rate on their home loan. That combined with the high cost of homes can be reason enough to stay put and fix up what you have. How do you decide what is right for you? Do you move or do you stay?

Everybody is doing it

According to a recent survey that was published by Redfin, more than 2 in 5 homeowners say that they have renovated their home in the past year. Another third are planning to renovate in the next year. However, even with all of this renovation occurring there is cautious consumer spending at the home improvement stores. What is happening? Home improvement stores are seeing a slowing of the demand for the big ticket remodeling. This type of renovations typically occur when there is a home turnover. So, with more people choosing not to move, the renovations that are occurring are smaller. For example, the renovation may be as simple as fresh paint and new light fixtures. Home owners are not doing the kitchen or bath remodel.

Little things can make a big impact

If you are trying to decide whether to renovate or relocate what type of renovations should you consider doing? Perhaps the best renovations to do are low budget, relatively modest projects. The type of project that is a cosmetic improvement. These small improvements can help you enjoy your space while you live there. They can also help your home show better and compete in the market when you decide to sell. The goal is make your home more comfortable and better suited to you. Remember, these small things will not necessarily make your home worth significantly more money when it is time to sell. Be realistic on your return on investment.

Big improvements vs. cosmetic

If you are feeling like the little improvements are just not enough to make you happy in your home, you should consult a realtor. Explore what you can afford and see if those homes, in your price range, make you happier. When you are wanting to do more than cosmetic repairs on your home it is time to really evaluate whether it makes sense to renovate or move. Renovations don’t deliver a full return on investment. Some add value. Some make a home easier to sell. But few give a dollar for dollar payback.

A recent survey showed that 65% of homeowners are choosing to renovate instead of move. These homeowners are typically taking on the smaller projects. These can be a practical way to improve your home without the added cost and headache of moving. Before you commit to any big renovation project be sure to consult with your realtor. Then you can get a clear picture of your options and learn how renovations might impact your home’s value. With all of this information you can make the right decision based on your goals and the numbers.

What is a home’s sun score?

If you have been shopping for a new place to call home you may have noticed that times have changed. It used to be that you would view a few photos, read the remarks and set up an appointment to see the house in person. Today, as a buyer, you can explore virtual tours, floor plans, flood maps, walkability scores, noise rankings and commute times before you ever set foot inside a home. Well, if that is not enough information, now you can explore how much sunlight a home gets during the day. We have all read the Realtor’s description of the home. They talk about how light and bright it is and how the home is flooded with natural light. Now you can verify that information. You can figure out the sun score and see if you think the home will work for you.

Where do I find sun scores?

When can you get this information? Redfin.com has launched the sun score to learn how much natural light a home received room by room and hour by hour using AI and geospatial data. To be fair, most buyer really do care about this. The amount of sunlight a home gets can impact the feel of a home. Sunlight preferences are subjective. Not everyone wants a light and bright home. Some people want a home with shade, cooler rooms, mature trees and a sense of privacy. The sun score can help these people find their perfect home too.

You can change the score

Some might say that this is going to cause buyers to over think things. You can change a homes sun score by trimming trees, opening blinds, repainting rooms to brighter colors and even improve lighting. All of these things can affect how light and bright a home is. Also, how much sunlight a home gets overall depends on a huge number of factors that have little to do with the home itself. The major factors are the climate, weather patterns, surrounding terrain, time of year and even the direction the home faces.

As a buyer today you have access to more data, rankings and scoring systems than ever before. Tools like this can be very useful, however, they might cause you to over think your decision. Make sure that you keep in mind the bigger priorities like the layout, affordability and overall fit of the home. Everyone will have preferences. The important thing to remember is no home is perfect. You can make it your own once you move in.

Kids Eat Free

I love the words “kids eat free”.  How fun is it to take your favorite little person out to eat and they eat free? This blog post is all about when and where to go to feed your kid for free.  These restaurants are frequently changing their offerings so please call ahead to make sure that the deals that I am publishing are still in affect. 

Whether you are planning a budget friendly night out or just want to skip cooking this post will help you save some money.  Who does want to do that? There are many participating restaurants around Fort Collins so check them out.  The deals are organized by day of the week. Monday is a great day to try eating for free. You are tired after the weekend. Get out and enjoy these offerings.

Monday

Brothers BBQ (https://brothers–bbq.com/promotions/). FREE kid’s meal with adult meal purchase.

Cafe Mexicali – FREE kids’s email with the purchase of a regular entree.

Agave Underground (https://agaveundergroundcocina.com/specials/) – Kids eat FREE with the purchase of an adult entree.

Tuesday

DC Oakes (https://www.dcoakesbrewhouse.com/) – FREE kids meal with adult purchase all day long. 

Denny’s (https://www.dennys.com/location/dennys-6313/menu/kids) – FREE kid’s meal with adult purchase between 4 and 10 pm.

Garbanzo – FREE kid’s meal with the purchase of a regular entree, dine-in only.

Wednesday

Culver’s (https://www.culvers.com/restaurants/fort-collins) – FREE kid’s meal with each basket, or dinner after 4pm. 

Smash burger (https://smashburger.com/kids-eat-free-locations) – FREE kid’s meal with adult full meal purchase.

Thursday/Friday

New Eatery (https://www.instagram.com/p/DF5oxcSOoOG/) – FREE kids meal with adult full meal purchase. 

Saturday

Spoons (https://espoons.com/kis-menu/) – Kids 12 and under get a free grilled cheese sandwich every Saturday with adult purchase.

Modern Eatery (https://modernmarket.com/) – Kids under 12 eat free after 5pm with purchase of an adult meal.

Sunday

Island Grill (http://www.islandgrillrestaurant.com/) – Kids 12 and under eat free, 5pm – 8pm with adult purchase. 

Grey Rock Sports Grill (https://www.greyrocksportsgrill.com/) – Kids eat free after 5pm with adult purchase. This is good for dine in only.

Remember that all of these offering are subject to change without notice.  Please call ahead to make sure that the free offering is still in place.  Save a buck and leave the dishes to someone else.  It does not have to be expensive to take your little, special someone out on a date. Enjoy them without the cost. 

Can You Trust AI for Real Estate Advice?

People are turning to AI for just about anything that you can think of. They are using it to help with awkward conversations. People are using AI to figure out strange health symptoms. To decide if it is worth a call to the doctor or a trip to urgent care. If only seems natural that people would also use AI when buying and selling real estate. Can you trust AI for real estate advice? AI can be a very useful tool. It can give you a general idea of how the real estate process works. It can help you understand terminology. But AI has its limitations. AI may not always give you accurate information.

There’s a story circulating on the internet. A well known celebrity used AI for guidance during real estate negotiations of a real estate contract. AI told the seller that he was accepting an offer that was too low. The buyer, in this negotiation also consulted AI. They were told that they were paying too much. Both can not be right! In this situation, the agents involved were able to step in and educate buyer and seller about the local market. That specific information was helpful in bringing the parties back to negotiations. Buyer and seller were able to make a deal. The correct, specific information on the local real estate market made the difference.

Should you trust AI?

Very few people actually trust AI, yet many still follow it’s advice. Fifty eight percent of people admit AI has influenced their opinions. Thirty two percent of people say that hey do not fully understand how AI generates its answers. But even with all of this skepticism many people still rely on the confident sounding answers from AI over a trusted, verified source.

How important is AI information?

This makes for a tricky situation. If you don’t understand how something works, it becomes very hard to recognize when it might be providing wrong information. AI is able to provide an answer in an authoritative manner. This makes AI information very easy to accept at face value. So how do you decide when and whether to use AI? It comes down to, use AI. Ask it questions. Also ask advice from friends and family. But at the end of the day, make sure that you have an agent that you like and trust. That agent can help you weigh the information that you have received. Then you can make confident decisions that work for you specific situation.

Seller’s Concessions in Home Sales

As a home seller you have options when deciding how to market your property. One of the options that you have is offering concessions to make your property more attractive to buyers.

What is a seller’s concession in a home sale and how do concessions work? A seller’s concession is when the seller pays for a certain cost that is typically a buyers cost. When a seller does this it can make their property more attractive to a buyer. Concessions can also help to make home buying more affordable for a buyer. For example, the seller could pay $5,000 for the buyer to buy down the interest rate on the buyers loan. The seller could also agree to pay for the buyers loan closing costs. The seller should be specific on the dollar figure that they will pay towards these costs.

Concessions help buyers

How do seller’s concessions work? Concessions can be advertised upfront or negotiated as a part of the home purchase agreement. In a written offer, the buyer will request a specific amount that will be credited to the buyer at closing. The buyer needs to know they will be receiving a credit on their settlement sheet at closing, not a check. The sellers concession will be a cost to the seller on their settlement sheet.

Not all concessions are helpful

Concessions can make the home more affordable with the buyer using them to buy down the interest rate. The sellers concession can also pay loan closing costs. Another possible concession is to make the home more attractive to a buyer. This can be in the from of a dollar figure towards replacement of carpet, as an example. This concession may not help a seller sell their home. When a buyer sees a credit for carpet replacement in MLS, it gives the buyer a negative impression. This impression is before the buyer has ever even looked at the home. The buyer can wonder what else is wrong with the home. This may lead to fewer showings with buyers ruling out a home they perceive needs work.

Sellers should know there’s a limit to the amount that can be offered as a concession to a buyer getting a loan. When planning a concession credit to a specific buyer, it is wise to speak with the buyers lender first. The lender can address the verbiage to appear in the contract and the total amount that can be provided.

Sellers can use sellers concessions to make their home more affordable and more attractive to buyers. A sellers concession maybe more affect than a price reduction. The concession could make it possible for a buyer to buy a home they might not otherwise to able to afford. Sellers should talk with their agent to weigh options and develop a strategy that can get their home sold.

Neighborhood Selection: Tips for Home Buyers

We have all heard the real estate saying, “location, location, location.” The saying reminds us that the location of a property is one of the most important things to look at when purchasing a property. Location is usually one of the first things, along with budget that a buyer talks about. They may want to live close to family or have a short commute to work or school. But how do you pick a neighborhood to live in?

You are not just buying real estate

Buying a home is not just purchasing real estate. It is also choosing a lifestyle that come with the neighborhood. Each neighborhood has its own vibe and attributes. But how do you find out the pros and cons of a neighborhood? Let your real estate agent be your guide. A good agent should act like a local guide. They can offer honest insight not on just the attributes but also any drawbacks to consider.

Do your research

Another good source of information is chatting with people that provide services in the area that you are interested in. Stop at the local, neighborhood coffee shop. Ask the servers some questions. If you are a god owner, take your dog for a walk through the neighborhood that you are considering. Ask a fellow dog walker some questions. Here are some ideas. “How long have you lived in the neighborhood?” “How has the neighborhood changed over the years?” “Is there anything you wished you had known before you moved into the neighborhood?” “What is your favorite thing about living where you do?” These questions delivered in a lighthearted manner, can give you some great insight into the community. They can also give you a feel for what it might be like to live there.

Take a walk

While you are on your dog walk notice how the homes are maintained. Are the streets lined with trees or graffiti? Stop in some of the neighborhood shops in the neighborhood. Are the stores thriving and well maintained or are many retail spaces vacant. This leisurely walk through the area can give you a feel for the community energy.

Check out social media

Check out the neighborhood that you are considering on social media. This can provide you with some unfiltered insight into the areas character and culture. What does the neighborhood prioritize? What are the complaints on social media? Do their values align with yours? Social media can give you information on day-to-day happenings, special events and local recommendations.

Choose a neighborhood is choosing a lifestyle. Like any big decision it deserves research and some reflection. Remember that no neighborhood is perfect. The goal is not to find perfection but to find a match that feels right to you.

Overcoming Mortgage Pre-Approval Anxiety

When people talk about why they are renting, rather than buying, the reasons given are not surprising. Interest rates are too high. Prices are too high. But the real reason may be the fear of getting pre-approved for a mortgage. On paper, getting pre-approved seems simple. It doesn’t take long. In the real estate world, it is the first step in the process of buying a home. What isn’t talked about often enough is how emotional this first step can feel for prospective home buyers. It feels like a stranger deciding whether you are worthy of buying a home. If you are worthy, this stranger will tell you how much you can spend. This is only after you provide an incredible amount of personal information. What if you are told no?

Fears are real

First time home buyers fears are real. This process is emotional and that first step can be hard if you have never taken it before. For a real estate agent, asking a buyer if they are pre-approved is routine. To an agent, calling a lender is routine. For the first time home buyer is can feel like walking into a test you did not study for. There is no real way around this first step in the process, unless you have access to a large amount of cash. What are fears and questions about the process?

Questions you may have

Here’s some questions you may have. Is my credit good enough? Do I have enough money saved for a down payment? What do I do if the amount that I am pre-approved for doesn’t match what homes cost in my market? If you are wondering the answers to these questions, you are not alone. These questions can be answered fairly quickly by a lender. The first step is to call a lender. The next step is to submit a loan application. Once the application has been reviewed you will talk with the lender. In some cases you may be told you are not ready yet. If that is the case you will make a plan on how to get to the point that you are pre-approved. The conversation regarding your pre-approval is not a verdict on your worth. It is a point in time look at your situation.

Lender recommendation

Not all lenders are alike. Some are better with first time home buyers than others. All are typically capable of helping a buyer through the process. But it is best to find a lender that understand the human side of the process. Ask Lestel for a recommendation. She can connect you with a lender that is patient, educational and supportive. The right lender does not judge where you are starting. They help you understand where you are and how to get to where you want to be. Remember that getting pre-approved isn’t a judgement or final verdict on your ability to buy a home. It is simply a starting point. It is important to connect with a good lender that can make the process feel less intimidating. Someone that answers questions, sets expectations and provide you with a road map to home ownership.